Hey, Stewie, the mission statement is good! I don't understand one thing, though....what do you mean by "All posters MUST remember that SUPPORT is the core of this forum, NOT politics." Not politics? Adoption = politics. Or do you mean not bringing personal issues people (in the community) have with each other into the forum....such as infighting? Need some clarification here!
Thanks
Ok giving this a shot, first, valid question, if I can answer well, hmmm that is another question
I agree that adoption has a lot to do with politics, but not entirely, what we are most concerned with is adoptee well-being.
As I see it there are two different sides to adoptees, outside of politics, you know if you are anti or pro or reform or just trying to get through the day man (like myself) there is the very personal experience of each adoptee in their unique experience.
That is the need/lack that this forum is trying to fill.
So while most of us here, are pretty aware of our issues, we are very new, as time goes on we will want to reach out more to the adoptee who is still trying to manage this on their own. They may come heavy in the fog, and we just don't want people to have the impression that we need to make adoptees who feel differently than we do, to assimilate, for the love of god, we know how that sucks, so for example
You know when I was first on line and trying to find out how/where what who resonated with me, I had some lame ass experiences with people who were too caught up in forcing their views down my throat, and fussing over words. We just don't want this to become a place like that.
I mean there really is no help out there for the adoptee, except the fellow adoptee, we want to promote the well-being of the individual more than we want to take a stance, I don't feel like I am being clear here, sorry, just trying.
If a person comes in and is very pro adoption or whatever and says they are looking for their mother, we just support them in that, and respect them for where they are, take them at their word, you know?
Tell me if that doesn't make sense.
I haven't slept much.