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« on: April 20, 2007, 09:07:54 pm » |
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What do you think about a sub-forum under "Support for Adoptees" for "Dating and Relationship Challenges for Adoptees"... or somepin' like that?
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« Reply #1 on: April 20, 2007, 09:57:37 pm » |
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maybe a section for us fabulous lites too? We taste great and we're less filling. What more could you ask for?
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« Reply #2 on: April 21, 2007, 12:43:56 am » |
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check and check and another check for contact denied
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« Reply #3 on: April 21, 2007, 12:49:15 am » |
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As far as I am concerned, you ain't lite if you done lost yo' momma. If you lost the woman with whom you had your primal connection, you're an adoptee. Word. I think adoptee lite should be.... I don't know....sperm donor conceived peeps? What do you think? What the funk do I know anyway
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« Reply #4 on: April 21, 2007, 12:54:48 am » |
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Oh yes, even as adoptee lite, I totally suck at relationships> Just ask my husband. I lost my mother. My very first, all bloody important relationship. All others are bound to **** up and suffer after that one went to hell. Well ****. I am not sure even what love is??? WHAT IS IT, goddammit?!
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« Reply #5 on: April 21, 2007, 02:19:02 am » |
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As far as I am concerned, you ain't lite if you done lost yo' momma. If you lost the woman with whom you had your primal connection, you're an adoptee. Word. I think adoptee lite should be.... I don't know....sperm donor conceived peeps? What do you think? What the funk do I know anyway Actually I agree, to me an adoptee light is a step father adoption Whatevah though, all I know is I parentheses Marsha. Whatever she wants.
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« Reply #6 on: April 21, 2007, 09:49:14 am » |
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I used to call myself a grandoptee or grandopted before SofA dubbed me an adoptee-lite. I dont call myself an adoptee because there are many levels of adopteehood that I did not experience. I have my records. I did have a bio connection to the people I was with. I did have my family tree. But yeah, like Sarah said, I got a HUGE dose of being an adoptee from the fact that my mom left and took her entire side of the family with her.
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« Reply #7 on: April 21, 2007, 12:16:15 pm » |
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Is there a place for, "I found my first parent and they're dead"? It happened to me. My first dad died four years ago. :( I'd really appreciate a place to talk about this. Thanks.
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« Reply #8 on: April 21, 2007, 01:15:32 pm » |
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Hey THANKS! I appreciate "Adoptees in Love." That's like for dating & marriage & divorce & stuff? How about other relationships, though - like with friends and other non-romantic peeps?
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« Reply #9 on: April 25, 2007, 07:36:46 pm » |
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a spot to put media links maybe next to celebrity adoptions?
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« Reply #10 on: April 26, 2007, 08:21:34 am » |
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a spot to put media links maybe next to celebrity adoptions?
Were you wanting some where to post media stories, or a place for links to different media outlets? We do have a "News and Views" section. It isn't specifically about stories related to adoption, but they would be welcome there.
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« Reply #11 on: April 26, 2007, 08:31:44 am » |
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There is also a links page. The tab is up top by the private messages & etc. tabs.
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« Reply #12 on: April 26, 2007, 11:35:47 am » |
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ahh yes, that is where I could put them. msp
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