Marsha that's so good. That deserves a page all it's own on your website
I'm always scared to write "this is how adoptees feel" kind of stuff for my site because I just know people are going to go "you're not even a real adoptee" and completely dismiss whatever I'm saying. I don't want my status making the statement not be heard, you know?
Marsha, Marsha, Marsha!!! Don't you know that even us "real" adoptees are completely dismissed when our opinions don't mesh with the happy, happy, joy, joy picture of adoption? Our status doesn't help us get heard - you should go for it! One more voice, well spoken at that, is always one more. Ya' know?