Wow Sarah you are AWESOME and brave to start talking about it to the dad.
Just don't go TOO postal on them or you might not get to see that little girl again, if she means alot to you and could benefit from you being in her life.
Meantime I'll see what I have about benefits of open adoption in my files...I bet julie or theresa have something....they have lots of good stuff..
BTW Isn't it weird how people say "how wonderful" when you tell them you're adopted? That happens to me too. I think my new response to that is going to be, "Yeah, it's AMAZING."
