Message #4753

[Nina]

My husband was pretty shocked when I posed the question about sending the card. 

He's been super supportive through search and reunion. 

He knows my mother has not expressed regret about her decision to relinquish...in fact, thinks it was a great idea...considering I turned out "better" (her word) than her kept kids and that even though she has been welcoming, she's not been terribly interested. 

Suspects I'm doing it to be nice, out of some weird guilt--people pleasing habit.  Which may be sadly true because today when I thought, gee, maybe I should look for a card I really didn't really want to do it.