As a mum not an adoptee I think it has to feel organic to send her a card. Do you want to send her a card and does it feel natural to do that. It's not about how we feel, it's about what feels comfortable for you.
I am not giving Mother's Day any power this year, I did in the past and I don't want to anymore.
It is my belief that the feelings of the adoptee are the most important in reunion.
Wow, I can see I'm not totally over my people pleasing tendencies, Kim. That was a really wonderful response. Thank you.