What do you think when you hear AP's/PAP's justify their adoption by saying "It's what God wants for us" or some similar line of reasoning?
I mean, if they are infertile, why isn't that a "sign" from God? As in, perhaps you shouldn't be raising children, then?
Or when the nmother changes her mind, why do they not seem to see the hand of God in that?
God is just a handy excuse for getting what they want, IMHO. If things dont' go their way, then it's everybody else's fault...heaven forbid that God not deliver on their every desire.
If they get what they want, it's the blessing of God
If something bad happens to them, then it was Satan's doing.
What ever happened to random crap happens in life. Sometimes good, sometimes bad?