Im not a religious person. However I am a very spiritual person.
I mean, if they are infertile, why isn't that a "sign" from God? As in, perhaps you shouldn't be raising children, then?
My a-mum wasn't able to have any children. She adopted four children. If its a sign from a god, then its a bloody stupid one. My mum was awesome. She was meant to be a mother and she was damn good at it.
mum! I wouldn't say adoption or infertility is about what god wanted, or didn't want for my mother. I believe in making choices for your life and your choices ultimately decide your destiny. I also don't believe that my mother dying of an illness seven years ago was 'gods' choice. It was **** horrible, that's what it was and is.
I mean, if people try and justify things that way.. then would it mean that people who have car accidents shouldn't drive cars? People who can't get a job shouldn't work. People who can't afford to eat, should starve? It makes no sense to me.
